I am disgusted and angered at North Carolina and any other State that makes equal human rights for all, subject to a majority vote. Do straight people have to wait and hope that a majority of the population all agree that they should be able to marry? No. So why do gays? Why do some people have to depend on other people agreeing what their rights should be, while some of us do not? I thought this was America. Bad enough that women in this day and age still have to battle every four years to hold on to their right to control their own body. But to say some Americans have the right to express their love for each other through marriage, and some do not–how absurd.
The “sanctity of marriage” only applies to people who believe in a god. And as usual, whenever god or religion is added to the mix we get hatred, intolerance, and a complete disregard for the pursuit of happiness for anyone who isn’t the same as we are.
I wrote this story this morning. Homosexuality is as natural to human beings as it is to any other warm blooded species on this planet. The very fact some human beings are born with a preference for their own gender proves this is natural because human beings, despite how artificial we’ve made our world, are still very much a part of the natural world.
I just thought–write a story to illustrate this same kind of discrimination toward people born “different” in a more obvious way–a way they obviously can’t help and don’t have any choice about. Does this scenario seem cruel, unfair and absurd? Well I know several gay people. This is not a lifestyle choice. This is not a choice at all. It is who they are; how they were born. For them it is as natural as being straight is for us. Can a straight person suddenly decide not to be straight anymore? Then how is it fair to treat gays like simply being who they are is somehow a choice?
Anyway, here’s the story:
A whisper of cool air. I turned my head to see Janie cracking her window. The old black van was fearsome hot in the blistering sun, the fabric of the front seat sticking to my thighs. I too, put a hand to the crank and let in some air. But it was only the van’s speed that made it seem cool. When I leaned my cheek close to the open air, it was warm. Easy Bake Oven warm.
“Are we there yet?” Ben asked from the back seat. I turned to see his flushed face. He was twisting where he sat, clearly uncomfortable. Beside him his twin Charlie sat with his eyes closed, his cheek resting on Ben’s shoulder. Being just twelve, the two boys had little patience for long drives, let alone in the summer heat.
“Almost.” Janie.flipped on her turn signal. I could see the kids in the stopped car next to us. They were bouncing up and down in their seats, obviously headed for the same destination as we.
“It’ll be packed,” Janie said.
“At this point I don’t care!” I returned. I kept my eye on my two little brothers. Their life had not been easy; every day I felt more protective of them. When at last the car crunched its way into the gravel parking lot beside the public pool, I saw Ben give Charlie a poke. The slightly smaller boy awoke with a jolt, looked to where Ben was pointing and grinned. As if on cue both boys seized their towels.
Getting out of the car was always awkward, but today it seemed my two little brothers had wings. I laughed at Charlie when he suddenly lost a flip flop in his haste to get in line. Ben at once stopped, and lowered himself just a bit so his brother could slip it back on.
The kids in front and behind looked curiously at my brothers. Ben stuck out his tongue. He was used to it. Charlie was luckily turned in such a way that very often he didn’t get to see. They were conjoined twins, both sharing one heart. It was possible when they were older and stronger they might be separated; both twins were on the waiting list for a heart.
I came first to the ticket window. “Three!” I sang out. From behind the fence I could see the sunlight on the water, the play of its rays across the cool blue surface. It was as packed as Janie predicted. In some places kids were shoulder to shoulder. Behind me I felt Ben pressing against me in his eagerness. It was almost a hundred degrees and it was Wisconsin. The heat itself turned to sweat beneath our clothes.
The balding man behind the window eyed my two brothers. I saw his eyes fix on the place where the two boys’ ribcages merged together. A look of disgust raised his upper lip. “You can go in,” he said curtly. “But not them. They’re not… natural.”
I felt a chill in that horrible heat. Starting at the back of my neck it shot straight through my stomach. “What?” I stared at the man, not believing what I’d just heard.
“Sam,” Janie said softly beside me. “Let’s go.”
“No way!” I put myself between my brothers and the man’s cruel scrutiny. “What is your problem? Who are you to tell us we can’t go in?”
“YOU can,” the man barked. “But not them. Not them! Holy shit, little girl, they’re unnatural. I don’t want them in the water with my kids. I don’t want the other kids seeing that!”
I took a step back, put my hands on my hips. “Look,” I said, trying to suppress the anger in my voice. I felt my body trembling: rage took me then. I could hardly form words. “This is America. We are Americans. My brothers have just as much right to go in that pool as anyone else!”
The man glared at me. A slow cruel smile bent his lips. He closed the window, came out of his chair; as I watched he came through the doorway to where we stood. With a rigid set to his shoulders he went to the metal gate and thumbed it open. “Ok!” he snarled. “Right!” I let out a yelp as he grabbed my arm, pushed me aside. Then his hard hands caught Ben and Charlie by the shoulders. With rough jerks of his arms he pulled the two boys through the gate, into the hard brightness of the sun.
A silence fell as the kids in the water stopped splashing, as the kids playing in the puddles beside the pool looked up. Even the boy on the diving board stopped and looked down. Suddenly everyone was looking at my little brothers as beside Ben, Charlie began to cry.
“Everyone!” the big man shouted. “This is America…that means we get a vote! Who here’s in favor of these two freaks getting in the water with you?”
I stood rooted to the spot. Not a single kid raised their hands. They stared at the man who they knew owned the pool, his loathing and hatred twisting his face, and not a kid raised their hand. Even the lifeguards at their various stations were dumbstruck; too afraid of losing their jobs to make a sound.
Finally I found my voice. “Come on, guys.” I bit hard on each word. “We don’t need their stupid pool. There’s the lake, just down the road and I’m betting no one’s peed in it, either!”
I took Charlie’s hand. He lurched beside me, hiding his face against my arm. We turned away from the sight of the water, but then had to stop. I saw Ben still standing with hope on his face, gazing at the other kids he ached to play with, the cool water he craved.
“Please,” I heard him whisper.
I looked at the adult who had done his best to humiliate my brothers. He was grinning now, and with gestures, getting many of the other kids to laugh.
“Come on, Ben,” I said gently. With a look of pain and confusion, my little brother turned away.